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You Hurt My Feelings (2023) — Movie Review

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By Olivia S.

- Jun 5, 2023

In her latest film, "You Hurt My Feelings," Nicole Holofcener continues to demonstrate her outstanding knack for capturing dialogue—the uttered words, the unspoken thoughts, the regretted slips.

She vividly illustrates a cultured, literary life in New York City, with the human truths that emerge being both relatable. Her actors, especially Julia Louis-Dreyfus, consistently deliver authentic and sharp performances.

She reunites with Louis-Dreyfus after their collaboration on "Enough Said" almost ten years ago. Holofcener skillfully elicits a subtle yet powerful performance that differs from Louis-Dreyfus' previous roles. The combination of her comic instinct and emotional depth is captivating.

The conflicts in "You Hurt My Feelings" may appear trivial but are monumental when experienced personally. Holofcener powerfully presents the vulnerability creative individuals feel when presenting their work to the world, inviting criticism. This is a subject she understands deeply after thirty years in filmmaking. Additionally, she tackles the universal tendency to avoid honesty to spare someone's feelings or evade confrontations.

The film delves into the potential repercussions of discovering others' true opinions about us. Besides Louis-Dreyfus, the movie boasts an impressive cast of supporting actors, including some from "Succession."

Beth, the central character, portrayed by Louis-Dreyfus, is a novelist and academic awaiting feedback on her new book. Despite support from her therapist husband, Don, played brilliantly by Tobias Menzies, an overheard conversation revealing his true opinion about her book leaves her devastated. Louis-Dreyfus skillfully balances the humor and deep pain in this delicate situation.

Michaela Watkins effectively plays Beth's younger sister, Sarah, offering a pragmatic view on Beth's predicament. In a recurring joke, Sarah, an interior designer, constantly suggests lighting fixtures to her client. But, only to be rejected each time.

Don's therapy sessions with a brutally frank couple, played by David Cross and Amber Tamblyn, showcase the other end of the spectrum: extreme honesty. Beth and Sarah's mother, portrayed by Jeannie Berlin, offers another alternative: passive-aggressive criticism.

Holofcener, consistent with her previous films, such as "Lovely & Amazing," "Friends with Money," and "Please Give," finds humor and wisdom within uncomfortable situations. "You Hurt My Feelings" is briskly paced and engaging, and it leaves viewers contemplating the delicate balance between honesty and kindness. It's a film not to miss in theaters.

OUR RATING

8 / 10