The popular stand-up comedian Ali Wong, known for discussing her personal life in her performances, has returned with her fourth, self-produced comedy special called "Single Lady." In this hour-long show, she unabashedly discusses her dating experiences following her divorce from her long-term husband two years ago. With her characteristic comedic flair, she presents her post-divorce life as a liberating experience – a far cry from usual stereotypes that paint middle-aged divorced women in negative light.
In "Single Lady," Wong aims to redefine societal views by presenting herself as an example of a divorced woman having a great time exploring her single life. She talks about her wild exploits, exciting dating episodes filled with anecdotes of various men and freedom in the realm of sexuality – all delivered through her distinctive and graphic comedic style.
But more than discussing her romantic escapades, the show explores themes such as self-reliance and financial independence. Wong continues to uphold her dedication towards discussing money and wealth in a forthright manner – a theme that pervaded her previous works like "Baby Cobra" and "Don Wong." This time, however, independence is viewed through the lens of a millionaire woman who leverages her economic stability to enjoy her dating life on her own terms. For Wong, dating is an adventurous exercise catering to her desires, and not one bound by economic need.
Although humor and comedic brilliance remain at the forefront of her show, she does not shy away from tackling societal norms and expectations. While she delves into taboos around motherhood, breastfeeding, or being successful, Wong is not afraid to criticize male comedians vying for younger women or accepting gifts without the obligation of returning the favors.
However, it’s also worth noting that the title "Single Lady" is not entirely accurate, as Wong has been in a public relationship with Bill Hader since last year, a fact she alludes to in the special without naming him. Despite painting her single life as a closed chapter of her life, it's clear Wong's experiences cannot be generalized. While not every divorced woman will have the same experiences as Wong, her testimonial in "Single Lady" serves as an entertaining narrative of her extraordinary journey.
Fans and new viewers alike can now stream “Ali Wong: Single Lady” on Netflix.