When Ben DeBacker (played by Corey Fogelmanis), the nonbinary main character in Tommy Dorfman’s directorial premiere, "I Wish You All the Best," shares their identity with their parents, it ends in catastrophe.
The powerful scene unfolds in fragments, creating a suspenseful energy around a melancholic family discussion. We follow Ben as they nervously consult an index card of notes and proceed towards the kitchen. Soon, Ben finds themselves reaching out for help from their distant sister Hannah (performed by Alexandra Daddario). The teenager from North Carolina is seen huddled in a gas station convenience store, shoeless and with tattered socks. The gravity of the situation only resonates when Hannah – worried and panting – comes to Ben's aid.
Debuting at SXSW, "I Wish You All the Best" trails Ben's recovery from the emotional aftermath of coming out to their conservative parents and adapting to life with Hannah and her husband (illustrated by Cole Sprouse). The script, penned by Dorfman, is an adaptation of Mason Deaver’s bestselling novel of the same title. The film delivers a heartfelt narration of nonbinary teen experiences, not just focusing on the horrifying moments. It retains a tone similar to Netflix's 'Heartstopper' and has an inherent charm that shadows its less polished storytelling aspects.
Adjusting to living with Hannah, who has also borne the brunt of their conservative parents, takes time for Ben. Hannah enrolls them in a new school to make them feel more comfortable, and even helps them land a part-time job with assistance from her husband. Eventually, the awkwardness and secrets in their relationship subside, making way for earnest efforts to eliminate communication and understanding barriers.
Despite convincing individual performances by Fogelmanis, Daddario, and Sprouse, the rigidity within the family dynamic often overshadows their portrayals. This is partially due to the film's inconsistent pacing which, in its attempt to cover extensive plotlines, fails to fully explore the relationships on-screen. As a result, the storyline occasionally inclines towards sentimental, staccato rhythms synonymous with prime-time TV shows like "This Is Us."
Ben's school life and their relationships with an unconventional art teacher (a memorable Lena Dunham) and a crush, Nathan (Miles Gutierrez-Riley), bring a refreshing shift in the narrative. Their bond with Nathan, an enthusiastic bisexual, unfolds quickly and intriguingly, regardless of scant exploration into the underlying attraction. Their high school life challenges Ben's preferred anonymity when individuals show genuine interest in them. Dorfman handles the growing intimacy between Nathan and Ben with dignity and realism, creating an authentic representation of these characters’ desires.
When not fantasizing about Nathan, Ben finds comfort in Miss Lyons, their eccentric art teacher (Lena Dunham). Dunham’s performance as the beacon guiding the shy and anxious students towards self-acceptance is commendable. Her humorous yet sincere portrayal of the character brings out the true essence of her role as a caring teacher who acknowledges Ben's gender identity without talking down to them.
"I Wish You All the Best" exudes sincere emotions, and despite its flaws, holds a clear sense of its mission. Dorfman’s direction utilizes intimate close-ups and unique shots to capture the evolution of Ben’s emotional journey. The costume design and Ben's changing comfort with their surroundings reflect their emotional progress. The once timid teenager confined to a corner, eventually stands tall, moving confidently towards freedom.
